Why am I single? Have you ever wondered why you are still without a partner? There are certain habits that maintain singleness in women, and it is important that you analyze them if you want to change your status.
Habits that maintain Singleness in Women.
Do you think that all men are equal? If so, you must change your mind. This conception that all men are womanizers, liars, unfaithful, or superficial prevents you from trusting the opposite sex again and therefore keeps you single. Furthermore, it is clearly not so. Don’t let a bad past experience stop you from meeting good people, there are!
Being addicted to social networks
You hardly like a man. You check his Facebook profile from head to toe. And yes, that way, you will always find something that will make you doubt (a comment, a photo, whatever) and much more if you know him little. The worst thing is that you know very well that you do not have to believe everything that appears on Facebook: appearances are deceiving. Allow yourself to know him personally.
Do you still hold a grudge against your boyfriend you cut up with years ago? The hate, the pain, and the resentment of a love failure decay us in the past and, therefore, without chances of opening ourselves to love. You have to look forward and leave behind everything bad: the pain of a bad experience also works against the fear side. We panic that this failure will be repeated, and that is why we do not dare to meet someone. You have to get over it!
Don’t let go of the wrong one.
Love can be present in the life of a single woman, of course. The bad thing is that most of the time, that love is unrequited, and here is the problem; While outside, there may be several good candidates hanging around, you don’t even look at them because you insist on it. Stagnant in a friend-benefit relationship? Stop wasting time with the wrong man, because unconsciously you do not allow the right one to appear.
The Princess Syndrome
Do you still believe in the blue princes? And in fairy tales where everything is perfect? Let’s go! Don’t wait for the prince charming to look for you on his horse because there you will be alone. It falls into the real world: not everything is rosy, sometimes things cost, and you have to fight for what you want. Also, the perfect man does not exist: you have to maintain realistic expectations.
Give too much too soon.
As soon as you are interested in someone, you take him home, cook him, tell him all your intimacies, introduce him to your family and friends. Everything too fast, don’t you think? Keep in mind that this scares men and drives them away: you must go step by step for the relationship to grow.
When will I meet someone? Why am I still single? Your concern to stay alone may be the main obstacle to just stop being alone. Free yourself from that pressure, that love comes when one least expects it. It is a worn phrase, but true.
I hope these habits help you analyze and answer the question, why am I single?